What’s Wrong With the Ego?

Posted February 11, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Cultural Ideas, Influence

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The question of the positive or negative aspects of ego could result in conversations lasting for years. The interest in and the commentary on the ego could also fill a library. The essence of this post is to make the point that in one great aspect, the ego is responsible for dividing our interests and progression in the path toward God.

Most religious teaching talks of severing the relationship with the ego: literally dying to its needs. Only then, it is taught, can we truly find God; only then can we be unified with our fellow man.

I offer another thought – the ego has a purpose and place in the whole person. I would even go so far as to say that in trying to kill off the ego, you are trying to kill off yourself. It is true that the ego has a powerful pull on the direction, interests and ultimate actions of the person, but like all human functions it can be harnessed to produce positive growth for the whole being. Instead of using great amounts of energy to conquer the ego, use that energy to define and enhance its positive effects.

For me, we are a projection of our ego, so that when we diminish it’s life, we diminish our own vitality. However, when we seek to examine and augment the impact of our ego, we are, in fact, increasing the ego’s ability to combine and unify with others. 

Scandalous God

Posted February 10, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Context, Creativity, Cultural Ideas

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One of the great scandals of man’s search for God has to be something that was mentioned in the previous post. I said that our church has a saying – Truth is truth wherever you find it. This fact has a huge implication in view of the us/them approach to God searching. Typically we enjoy a perception of preeminence in relation to our chosen path. If we are Christian, we assume all others, the “thems” are wrong and we are right. The same for any other flavor of religion or sect.

In fact we not only believe others to be wrong, but very wrong, and ourselves to be right about everything we think in relation to our religion. The great scandal is that God has allowed His truth to make it’s way into all sorts of “paths” – both the approved ones and the ones not approved. If truth is truth, then there is no difference whether Jesus or Buddah says that we should “love each other”. 

The essence of the truth is not in who says it, but in what is contained in the words.   

TRUTH:Where is it?

Posted February 9, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Context, Cultural Ideas

At our church we have a saying, “Truth is truth wherever you find it.” This comes from a sereis we did a few months back where we looked at the sacred texts of other religions and stated that when the Buddah says to love everyone, or the Tao says to love all, that those statements are truth. God is large enough for His truth to be found within other religions and in the conversations of those searching for Him.

In essence, when you search for truth you are searching for God. As you search He is big enough to find you where you are and communicate to you in whatever way you can best hear about the unending love He has for you.

Communion With God

Posted February 8, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Context, Cultural Ideas

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When we tend to think about communion we think of a time of deep thought and prayer centered around the sacrifice of Jesus and the last meal the disciples and Jesus shared. We think about the sacrament in the church that is a religious ceremony involving the eating of a small wafer and the drinking of either wine or grape juice, depending on religious faith.

I want to look at the interpretation of the word “communion” and our need to turn a choice meeting of Jesus and His disciples into a rote ceremony. I think the first thing to examine is the fact that the original “communion” was a meal, a dinner shared with friends. When we take time to eat together we develop relational bonds that go further than just superficial exchanges.

Another aspect that I want to focus on is that in the sharing of a meal we do two things:talk and listen. There is a give and take in  the dialogue and both parties lean from the time spent with each other. The next time you experience the rite of communion in your given faith, think about the sharing of intimacy between each of us and God. This aspect can enhance the meaning given and give relevance to an activity that generations of those following Christ have participated in.

One Month to Live

Posted February 7, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Books I'm Reading, Cultural Ideas

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I had to comment on this new book. I had read an article that mentioned it and then during the Super Bowl, I saw and advertisement for it. I picked it up at the local Books-a-Million and found an interesting idea. What would you do if you knew that you only had 30 days to live.

Who would you talk to, what would you write, where would you go; what would you do? I found the questions compelling and decided that I would actively ponder the thought and put action to some of my conclusions.

What I found was an immediate sense of anxiety. There were so many things that shot through my mind. So many people and places and events. What struck me though, probably the most, was that after the initial shock and feeling of being overwhelmed, I quickly began to automatically sift through and decipher the important things that had value.

My conclusion is that this exercise can be extremely beneficial in helping us to see the things of great value that surround us each and every day. We have many scattered ideas about what things we have to do, but in light of the question of being gone in 30 days, reality helps us really see around us.

I remember as a youth I became busy, as most of us have, and walked up the steps to my house and noticed that the flowers on the dogwood by the front door were falling. I had been so consumed with my own perceived important things, that I had missed the blooming and grandeur of the flowers. I only realized and recognized them when it was too late to enjoy their gift of beauty.

Take a moment today and think about that question: what would you do if you had only 30 days to live?

Seekers

Posted February 6, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Context, Cultural Ideas

Why do we seek religious experiences? Is is so that we can revel in feeling something other-worldly or mystical? Is it because we are in fear of the “regular world” and need a fix of something sublimely different?

I think that in our constant search for an Experience, we become distracted from the real void that exists in our lives. In seeking an experience we also are seeking validation – ultimate validation, if we are honest – from God Himself.

We look around and feel lacking in some area, so we go to the Supreme Power of the Universe to get His take on our own feelings of impotence. We figure that if He at least says we are OK , we can deal with the rest of the world’s oppressive comments. We try to form a spiritual allegiance with the Godhead so that we can what? Feel good about ourselves? How twisted is that?

Instead, if we are seeking, why not seek to know ourselves better. In learning to know ourselves and accepting ourselves we will find, I am sure, that the God who dwelt among us will become the God that dwells with us. In other words, there are so few people actively trying to figure themselves out and really live life, that God is compelled to check it out.

No this isn’t Keats or Longfellow or Kant, but I do think it is true. Even Jesus said, “The Kingdom is within.” Why do we search so much in the exterior when the real action is in the interior?

“Everything is beautiful”

Posted February 5, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Context, Creativity, Cultural Ideas

In a previous post I mentioned the scripture in Ecclesiasties 3:11 where everything is described as having beauty in its own time as a characteristic. I wanted to revisit this. It is difficult to look at situations we share and those that appear singular to us and use the word, “beauty” to describe them.

It is not beautiful to lose a job or loved one. It is not beautiful to go through divorce. It is not beautiful to experience pain. The key phrase I think we have to examine is “in its time”. The scripture is not saying that everything is beautiful all the time. It is saying that there are things that appear once to be horrific and grotesque, but at a later time can bring beauty and even appear beautiful themselves because of the joy that has resulted from them.

In simplistic terms, there can be no appreciation for peace without the terror of war. We live under a constant tension that lets us experience both the good and the bad. As the narrative explains, Adam and Eve took of the fruit. From that taking came the knowledge of both good and evil. I think the blessing in the curse is that they were able to truly enjoy the good and also see the devastation of the bad.

Regardless of current circumstances, everything will find itself beautiful in its own time.

Practically Letting Go: Part 2

Posted February 4, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Cultural Ideas, Influence, Me

Hope Part 1 helped some of you guys out. Here’s another tried and true method to my madness, and a way to free up unproductive time.

Dialogue is important in what I do. The decisions that I make are made using information from multiple sources. I talk to people, read books, listen and watch various media outlets in order to formulate a strategy for visual and content success. Each series requires individual attention and frequent adjustment. The point is – I have a lot to do in a short amount of time. This is coupled by the fact that the process is repeated every 4-5 weeks.

One of the greatest Idea Assets that I have found is to: NOT GET INVOLVED IN MEANINGLESS DIALOGUE. I put that in caps to arrest your attention. This is critical. If you are like me, people like to talk to you; and you like to talk to them. Problems arise when you need to focus on the Big Idea.

There are people in all of our lives who simply want to talk. They don’t offer any additional input into a situation, they don’t help you make a decision, and they certainly don’t contribute to a completion of a project. Love these people, but don’t get involved in meaningless dialogue with them. Be straightforward and firm. Your time belongs to you, and only you can give it away.

Utilize this one principle and loads of time will open up for you.  

Practically letting go Part 1

Posted February 3, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Influence, Me

There are things tha ti have learned that have helped me to become somewhat streamlined in my approach to life. Many times I will bog back down into the mire of life, but when I remeber these few things I quickly regain ground and experience personal sucess and satisfaction.

A big practice for me is to not check email in the morning. I know you were expaecting a more spiritual exercise, but listen, this really works. When I come into work I do not first go to my computer and check email. Instead I check it at noon and again at 4pm. Most of the time this is sufficient. If more is needed it usually means I haven’t communicated effectivly to someone.

So try this for a week and see if it doesn’t add to you time and free up happier feelings for a better day.

the margins

Posted February 2, 2008 by Chris
Categories: Context, Cultural Ideas, Goals, Me

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I have always been struck by the fact that Jesus was drawn to people who were in the margins of society. His focus tended to be on those who were off the center, or even “off the grid”. It wasn’t as though he happened to see them and went over to them. In many cases he deliberately sought them out. He didn’t talk to them after he felt guilty for not talking to them. In stark contrast to our first reactions to those different than ourselves, he went to them as though he had never entertained the thought of passing them by.

I wish I could say that I have never passed people by – but I have. I have seen people, but been busy with something and have walked by. I have seen people and hoped they didn’t look at me so I wouldn’t feel guilty about not talking to them. I wish I could say that every needy face I have seen was respected and responded to, but I can’t. Why am I drawn to the glittery center and Christ to the margins? Why does centrality suit me, but the edges suited Him?

More than anything this year I want to become the friend of the margins. I want to gaze into the face of the marginalized and see myself in their eyes. I want to respond and “do” for them what Christ “did”. I want a real palpable love to come forth for them and when it does, for it to change me.