Archive for the ‘Influence’ category

A Change is Gonna Come…

May 12, 2008

Lately, things are happening all over the world. One day there is a typhoon then next storms, and then earthquakes. All of this taking place in a heated election year. It is during times such as these that many can become paralyzed by the magnitude of change happening around them. What we know deep in our spirit is that the pendulum of change has swung and will swing again bringing both pain and pleasure. To be human is to experience both emotions.

The real test is our response to the unsettling events and our seeming inability to control anything. The first response should be to breathe. Breathe in all of the events as they happen – experience the moment, but realize that as soon as it has occurred for you in the present, with the ticking of the clock the event moves to it’s permanent residence in the past. You, however, are still here…in the present.

Be true to your feelings, be they grief or joy. Simply understand they are just feelings and can change based on our future recollections. What may seem horrible now, may have peace or joy attached to it later. In the meantime, accept that the changing nature of life won’t stop.

This observation will bring hope to some and none to others, our perception shades every experience of our lives. We get to choose how we respond to situations in our lives. And with those choices a road is paved before us.

I, like you, look at the global news and hear the troubling reports, but in the shock we can see that the undulating ribbons of God’s love has never stopped.

Though we question and do not understand fully the “Why?” and the “How?”, we can be grateful of an opportunity to see greater and larger view of God as we hear the stories of those who…”if it had not been for my neighbor waking up and telling me to move, I would be dead.” or “if we had not moved to another part of the house when we did, we wouldn’t have survived.” This is what I choose to do, and I hope you will join me in purposing to hear the good in a time when we will be hearing so much bad.

Do Something Amazing Each Day

May 6, 2008

I can’t remember where I saw this in the past few days. I hate not knowing because I’m usually a stickler for keeping track of those things. Be that as it may, this phrase, “Do something amazing each day”, has decided to take up dwelling in my mind-space.

The only thing I do recall is that the quote was by someone who was an amputee. He resolved that after his amputation he would “do something amazing each day”. I don’t know about you but most of my days really aren’t that amazing. I’ve had good days, really, really good days, but “amazing”?

I started to think and have been thinking of what would constitute an amazing day. What would have to have happened, been felt, said, etc. for a day to qualify as amazing?

One thing I think would have to be evident: that an action I either did, or was instrumental in having done, effected a real positive change in either my life or the ones I wanted affected.

One more quote that’s been lurking since I read it is that the only real eternal life there is is the present. The present does not have a past or future, it is timeless. Therefore, the present is the only time that is “out of time”. To truly embrace the eternal life we’ve been given is to live in the Now, the present.

Combine those two thoughts together and you have a pretty ambitious approach to living. Seriously though, think, just for a moment, what your life would look like if you introduced each of these contexts into your daily rhythm of living. Then imagine if we all took these two items to heart.

Naive? Maybe, but out of naivete can come some of the most profound and illuminating propositions for life.

To Tip or Not to Tip

May 4, 2008

I think today’s message had more to do with “God and Your Bod” than we first thought. The idea of taking care of you body has to lead into thinking about more than just maintaining or “watching out for” your body. To see success in any area, especially issues about our bodies, we have to have both a plan of application and a plan of execution. If we fail in either of these we will not see the level of success we are capable of.

I’ve started “diets” many times. I had an “eating plan” or an “exercise plan”, but I failed to have a plan of execution. Without execution, no plan will succeed. In our church we have plans, but if we cannot execute them because of lack of interest or funds we won’t see the success we know we are capable of.

I know that talking about money can effect people differently. The greatest effect of today’s message would be to catalyze us to action and movement. When we use the resources God has entrusted us with and freely use them to accomplish things larger than ourselves, we become a part of a cumulative wave enacting and accomplishing God’s purposes for us.

Many good organizations “talk” about doing things, but ultimately the result is just talk. The greatest thing we can take away from today is that we have an opportunity to be a major voice in our community and “do” things. It will take time, effort and money, but the lasting impact will continue far longer than we can even begin to think.

Life Questions

April 30, 2008

Occasionally I like to think in abstract, incongruent, counterintuitive ways. OK, more than occasionally, but the point is that I like asking myself questions no one else will ask me. Provacative questions that confront me and compel me to evaluate and investigate my life and how I am relating to myself. Once that is known I can better relate properly to others.

Stay with me now. What follows are a few questions to pose to yourself and think about. Remeber that the most significant parts of a musical piece are the spaces between the notes. As you ask yourself the questions pay attention not only to the questions and answers that come up, but also to the quiet spaces between the questions and answers.

Who are you? not as self, but as Self

Why are you here? not your work, but your Work

How are you unique? gathering all the stuff that makes up you

How can you make a dramatic difference? your best contribution to humanity

Who cares about this?

Do you care about this?

Another Primary: Obama vs. Clinton

April 22, 2008

Well, it seems we have to see yet one more drawn out primary in Pennsylvania. Hillary Clinton has defeated Barack Obama by a double digit percentage point. Yeah. What will we possibly do until the next primary? Live is the likely answer.

Don’t get me wrong I am “into politics”. I can talk and talk about different opinions and the pros and cons of each candidates. Seems to those I’ve talked to recently that this is somewhat of a lackluster season. It’s almost May for crying out loud, and we don’t know who the respective parties will have as their person.

Instead of a dialogue beginning between the two distinct candidats, there is still infighting in a party. One great thing is coming out of this though. You have to look at the content and there are some good things happening in the speeches across the nation. It does look as though the issues that “we” are interested in are finding there way into the discussions of the candidates. This, we would all agree, is a good thing. We’ll just have to wait and see how things pan out in Indiana – can’t wait!  

Batterson and Kili

April 18, 2008

I subscribe to a few really good blogs from people who I like to think of as long distance mentors. To be a mentor you only have to be doing or “being” a person who exemplifies certain character traits that I feel would be beneficiall in the long-term for me. Mark Batterson is one of those guys. I love his blog because it is real. You may be thinking – “they are all real”, but I’ve read and subscribed to others who began posting about their life and families and ended up trying to preach from the blog.

Mark’s blog shoots life into my day because he is a great speaker, but he doesn’t take himself too seriously. Case in point is this recent post. One of my life goals is to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro. Mark posted that not only was this one of his goals. but he also has the opportunity to see it happen.

Many times we write out goals and then put them on the shelf. Thanks Mark for letting me take a few back off the shelf, brush them off and see what we can do in the near present instead of waiting or forgetting.

Looking at CD’s

April 18, 2008

I was looking at the posts over the past few months and I realized that I’ve yet to review a single CD. This is odd considering music is a large part of my life.

Over the next few weeks I’ll look at some of the new popular and possibly obscure music available and give my thoughts on it. My musical tastes are varies and you won’t like everything I suggest, but hold on this will be a great trip as we look at some great tunes.

At the Q Conference

April 9, 2008

I’m at the Q Conference in NYC and what about I forgot my power cord, so……I’m going to post a play by play of the conference, but it will have to wait until I get back to GA. For now though I’m having a great time meeting great people and experiencing a wonderful time of community, catching up with people I met last year and making new friends.

Q Conference – 12 Days – Venue

March 29, 2008

Q is being held at Gotham Hall in New York City. It sits on Broadway just a few blocks from Times Square. This should provide a provocative environment for thought and ideas.
Originally, the building was the headquarters of the Greenwich Savings Bank.
The one thing that I appreciate about Gabe and his crew is the thought they put into the details of the Q Experience.

Q Conference – 13 Days – Learning Journey

March 28, 2008

Every year Q includes a Learning Journey in the experience. Last year you could choose between a tour of CNN or the High Museum of Art. I chose the museum and had a great time. It rained the whole day, but inside the museum you were separated from the weather.

This year there are several different Learning Journeys ranging from Free Hugs to homelessness to urbanism and a view at the Chelsea art district. These all point to a desire for us to begin to “do” something instead of “talking” about things.

Action is crucial if we are to have a lasting impact in our culture.