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The Power of Words

February 23, 2008

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Just a comment here about the power that is contained in words. During this campaign season we are hit from both sides with words words words. Every candidate is seeking to separate themselves from the other and distinguish themselves as THE candidate to vote for.

In the process there are many words that flow between and about the people running for office. In a few months our ears will have become numb to the talking points of each person and we will collectively try to advance time to November. Before we endure this and leave it with nothing, lets take this time to examine the value of words and their influence on us and those around us.

Words can help us or hinder us. In each of our lives we have the choice which words to us in every situation of life. We are the authors of our future as we dictate into history our lives. What we choose can have long lasting consequences, as we will see in the campaign.

Just take the next week and see if your words change because of paying more attention to them and their power. As we wake up each day the world awaits our voice. The world longs to hear what we wish for each day and doesn’t hesitate to bring it to pass.

Propose Solutions

February 18, 2008

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Quit asking for polls and opinions and begin to propose solutions. I your life, and mine, there are ample opportunities to hear how other people want things done. Advice is on every corner and in every in-box. Though there may be shortages of some things in our world, there is no shortage of other people offering their reasons as to why you should do things their way.

We can become weak in our abilities to make decisions and stand for positions we agree with. Having an unpopular opinion is not the same as having The Plague. The easy route is to find the “pulse of the people” and follow it’s every whim and movement. The difficult route – and it has always been the difficult way – is to believe in something and stand for it.

Whatever you believe in, one day it will not be popular. One day your ideas won’t be en vogue. One day you will have to choose to maintain the course of your belief or change course based on someone else’s belief.

Stay your course and be a person who offers the way – who offers solutions to others problems. Be the person people go to when they don’t know what to do. Propose a solution, and I promise you’ll find people following you. I know this because people who propose solutions are rare individuals – be a rare kind, disregard popular opinion and offer solutions. 

Living from our strengths

February 12, 2008

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I have to say that one of my favorite people to read and listen to is Marcus Buckingham. He worked with the Gallup organization for several years and co-authored the books, First, Break All the Rules; Now Discover Your Strengths and authored the book The One Thing You Need to Know. His emphasis for some time now has been to help people focus on living through their strengths instead of trying to improve their weaknesses. His point is taken with an example of a scale from 1 to 10: 1 being weak and 10 being strong. If you are an 8 in one area and you improve by a point or two, great; but if you are a 3 in an area, you have the potential to only get yourself up to a 5 or 6 – still mediocre at best.

His analysis displays the fact that when we live and work from our strengths, we are happier people. No one has to tell you what you’re good at – you know it, it is instinctive and you feel pleasure from it. Conversly, no one has to tell you what you are bad at – you know these things also. you dread them and they deplete your energy.

When we focus living in our strength zone, we make life better for ourselves and those around us. A team of people working from their strengths can change the culture of an organization and increase the whole workforces attitude about  a particular business. The impact cannot be emphasized enough.

Living and working from our strengths utilizes the best we can offer to any person or situation. It breeds success, and decreases failure, resulting in much more confidence and inner direction and (pardon the pun) strength.

Scandalous God

February 10, 2008

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One of the great scandals of man’s search for God has to be something that was mentioned in the previous post. I said that our church has a saying – Truth is truth wherever you find it. This fact has a huge implication in view of the us/them approach to God searching. Typically we enjoy a perception of preeminence in relation to our chosen path. If we are Christian, we assume all others, the “thems” are wrong and we are right. The same for any other flavor of religion or sect.

In fact we not only believe others to be wrong, but very wrong, and ourselves to be right about everything we think in relation to our religion. The great scandal is that God has allowed His truth to make it’s way into all sorts of “paths” – both the approved ones and the ones not approved. If truth is truth, then there is no difference whether Jesus or Buddah says that we should “love each other”. 

The essence of the truth is not in who says it, but in what is contained in the words.   

TRUTH:Where is it?

February 9, 2008

At our church we have a saying, “Truth is truth wherever you find it.” This comes from a sereis we did a few months back where we looked at the sacred texts of other religions and stated that when the Buddah says to love everyone, or the Tao says to love all, that those statements are truth. God is large enough for His truth to be found within other religions and in the conversations of those searching for Him.

In essence, when you search for truth you are searching for God. As you search He is big enough to find you where you are and communicate to you in whatever way you can best hear about the unending love He has for you.

Communion With God

February 8, 2008

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When we tend to think about communion we think of a time of deep thought and prayer centered around the sacrifice of Jesus and the last meal the disciples and Jesus shared. We think about the sacrament in the church that is a religious ceremony involving the eating of a small wafer and the drinking of either wine or grape juice, depending on religious faith.

I want to look at the interpretation of the word “communion” and our need to turn a choice meeting of Jesus and His disciples into a rote ceremony. I think the first thing to examine is the fact that the original “communion” was a meal, a dinner shared with friends. When we take time to eat together we develop relational bonds that go further than just superficial exchanges.

Another aspect that I want to focus on is that in the sharing of a meal we do two things:talk and listen. There is a give and take in  the dialogue and both parties lean from the time spent with each other. The next time you experience the rite of communion in your given faith, think about the sharing of intimacy between each of us and God. This aspect can enhance the meaning given and give relevance to an activity that generations of those following Christ have participated in.

Seekers

February 6, 2008

Why do we seek religious experiences? Is is so that we can revel in feeling something other-worldly or mystical? Is it because we are in fear of the “regular world” and need a fix of something sublimely different?

I think that in our constant search for an Experience, we become distracted from the real void that exists in our lives. In seeking an experience we also are seeking validation – ultimate validation, if we are honest – from God Himself.

We look around and feel lacking in some area, so we go to the Supreme Power of the Universe to get His take on our own feelings of impotence. We figure that if He at least says we are OK , we can deal with the rest of the world’s oppressive comments. We try to form a spiritual allegiance with the Godhead so that we can what? Feel good about ourselves? How twisted is that?

Instead, if we are seeking, why not seek to know ourselves better. In learning to know ourselves and accepting ourselves we will find, I am sure, that the God who dwelt among us will become the God that dwells with us. In other words, there are so few people actively trying to figure themselves out and really live life, that God is compelled to check it out.

No this isn’t Keats or Longfellow or Kant, but I do think it is true. Even Jesus said, “The Kingdom is within.” Why do we search so much in the exterior when the real action is in the interior?

“Everything is beautiful”

February 5, 2008

In a previous post I mentioned the scripture in Ecclesiasties 3:11 where everything is described as having beauty in its own time as a characteristic. I wanted to revisit this. It is difficult to look at situations we share and those that appear singular to us and use the word, “beauty” to describe them.

It is not beautiful to lose a job or loved one. It is not beautiful to go through divorce. It is not beautiful to experience pain. The key phrase I think we have to examine is “in its time”. The scripture is not saying that everything is beautiful all the time. It is saying that there are things that appear once to be horrific and grotesque, but at a later time can bring beauty and even appear beautiful themselves because of the joy that has resulted from them.

In simplistic terms, there can be no appreciation for peace without the terror of war. We live under a constant tension that lets us experience both the good and the bad. As the narrative explains, Adam and Eve took of the fruit. From that taking came the knowledge of both good and evil. I think the blessing in the curse is that they were able to truly enjoy the good and also see the devastation of the bad.

Regardless of current circumstances, everything will find itself beautiful in its own time.

the margins

February 2, 2008

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I have always been struck by the fact that Jesus was drawn to people who were in the margins of society. His focus tended to be on those who were off the center, or even “off the grid”. It wasn’t as though he happened to see them and went over to them. In many cases he deliberately sought them out. He didn’t talk to them after he felt guilty for not talking to them. In stark contrast to our first reactions to those different than ourselves, he went to them as though he had never entertained the thought of passing them by.

I wish I could say that I have never passed people by – but I have. I have seen people, but been busy with something and have walked by. I have seen people and hoped they didn’t look at me so I wouldn’t feel guilty about not talking to them. I wish I could say that every needy face I have seen was respected and responded to, but I can’t. Why am I drawn to the glittery center and Christ to the margins? Why does centrality suit me, but the edges suited Him?

More than anything this year I want to become the friend of the margins. I want to gaze into the face of the marginalized and see myself in their eyes. I want to respond and “do” for them what Christ “did”. I want a real palpable love to come forth for them and when it does, for it to change me.

shift

January 29, 2008

I don’t know about you, but it seems to me that in every facet of life there is a shifting going on. Most obvious is the shift we see in the political arena. It is felt not simply because of the different issues being discussed, but with the way in which the dicussions are being held. I completely agree that it is a wonderful time to be alive. The global events that we are seeing are happening at a different rate and with different outcomes than would have occured even a few years ago.

Whether we agree on the issues like global warming, economy, and war, the one thing we can all admit is that there is a shift. A shift both in thinking and execution; in action and effect; in intent and purpose. Like never before we have a great opportunity to utilize our personal influence and create great change with small actions. When we live each day with purpose and passion we effect each day.