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Just Words?

June 1, 2008

Words – are they just words?

Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country – Kennedy

I have a dream – Martin Luther King Jr.

Mr. Gorbachev tear down that wall – Ronald Reagan

Lincoln at Gettysburg

These words unified and catalyzed a nation, but words can also have negative consequences.

I am not a crook – Nixon

No new taxes – Bush Sr.

I did not have sex with that woman – Clinton

Intrinsic in words are power, influence and impact. Today’s message we talked about this issue of words. It should cause us pause as we prepare for the events of life. Words are free and we can use them however we choose, but the choosing is perhaps the hardest part.

The easy thing is to just say what we feel and let the chips fall wherever and on whoever they will, but the hard thing is to control and harness our words to become the most effective life creating thing we have.

Today, look for opportunities to change a situation from negative to positive with just the power of your words.

Tony Snow

May 30, 2008

Tony fills in for Bill O’Reilly on the radio and about a month ago their was a story about a family who, for spiritual reasons, declined medical treatment. The result was that a child died from a treatable problem.

During the show Tony said that, “having faith in God means having faith in man.” I thought that was an incredible statement. If we believe in the overarching control of God, we have to also understand the power that God has given to mankind. If I need help and the only way I will accept it is from an angel, then I am an ignorant soul and do not really want help – I want attention and ultimatlery control. I want you to look at me and ask me my opinion. To live that way has nothing to do with religion and everything to do with a life controled and defined by ego. Nothing more, nothing less.

Matters of the Heart

May 25, 2008

To continue on the talk we heard this morning, the issues of the heart are, without a doubt, issues that define who we are in the moment. The way we respond determines our future. In times of stress and anxiety the struggle between the heart and the mind can become fierce, but we have the last say in which one wins.

In every situation our heart plays a dominant roll because the heart listens and speaks on a different level than the mind. Actions that may seem perfectly coherent and logical with the mind can cause the heart tremendous stress. In relationships, arrangements and group activity the mind and heart are continually vying for dominance.

We can work on trying to alleviate this pressure, but the focus of our attention should be on watching and observing our actions. Taking ourselves out of the situation and looking through the eyes of an observer can cause us to experience frustrating and exhausting heart/mind struggles in a different way.

As an observer, we don’t “have a dog in the race”. Our position is merely to watch and see what is happening. Many times when we do this one thing, the attitude and build up of emotional pressure will be lessened considerably making way for a more rational approach to a problem or set of circumstances.

The battle between heart/mind ownership won’t stop, but observation can remove the power they both try to wield.

“Q” Question

May 20, 2008

“How can you engage with your local community in a deeper way?”

That was the question placed on tables at the Q Conference in New York about a month ago. It is a great question. So many times churches tend to deal with their own people and only concern themselves with the needs of their congregation. Granted, these needs can be time and resource consuming, but the real need for the world is churches who see beyond those who look, act, and believe the same.

It is critical that churches look out into their community and face the challenges of the day with their neighbors. At a time when spirituality is everywhere from books to television, why would a church who desires to do and be more hesitate to become involved with those in its surrounding area?

The greatest need today is not larger churches, not better churches (whatever that means). No, the need is for selfless churches who look to meet the needs of those who will never contribute monetarily to the churches efforts.

The “least of these” need tending to. While we focus on deepening relationships and activities within our local communities we will begin to see a seismic shift of sense…we will see that we are becoming The Body.

You are what you think

April 26, 2008

We’ve begun a series called “God and Your Bod” at Lifepoint. At the conclusion of the first week we challenged people to choose a goal and complete it by the time the series (6 weeks) is over. My challenge is to lose 12 pounds. So far I’ve lost a couple, but I’m stepping up my efforts.

With this in mind, I’ve been reading several books about the mind and it’s influence on our actions. This challenge has caused some people to put into action activities that they wouldn’t have if those activities had not been put in front of their mind. Everyone “heard” the challenge but only a few (a wonderful few!) have embarked on the journey. They heard and then allowed the idea to stay in their mind and it moved them to action.

Prayer is something that many people discuss and talk about and want to do more, but often don’t, or at least don’t “do prayer” the way they suppose prayer is to be “done”. This can cause conflicts and internal guilt, so I want to alleviate some of that.

I think many people are active in the spiritual discipline of prayer – without calling it or even perceiving it to be prayer. Spiritual disciplines are a subject that conjures up negative feelings. Feeling like we have to “buckle down” and work on these things. We think, “it will be hard, but it will be worth it in the long run”. In my experience a discipline ultimately becomes a part of the rhythm of life. The discipline has become a habit that is done without thinking about it – like breathing. I know that I breathe because I’m alive, but I don’t go around all day and “think hard” about breathing. It (breathing) has become an unconscious part of who I am.

Communication with God, or prayer is the same thing. There is an internal dialogue going on all the time within you because you are a spiritual being. You can no more undo that fact than turn back time. The key to feeling successful with prayer is to become conscious of that dialogue – to take control and direct the dialogue.

Too often we focus on the creating of the dialogue, but the conversation is already there. It is extremely difficult to create something that is already in existence and perceive it as new. Instead, focus on the directing of the conversation within and you will see a direct change in the way you feel about the topic of prayer.

Often times our definitions of spiritual things are simply passed down from someone else. We need to look at the words that define spiritual expirations and find out what they mean to “us”, only then can we truly have the foundation of faith we think we already have.

The Real X-Men

March 25, 2008

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The title can go for both men and women, but it defines a group of people with whom I am feeling closer and closer. In this specific moment in history, particularly religious history, we are exiting a strictly modernistic approach to all things religious. No more pigeon-holing and walls of denominational exclusions. Yet while the shift is obvious and large enough to guarantee it’s further progression, the trip isn’t over. While we are leaving an era of dissection understood and hypothesis tested for a place of trusted uncertainty, this point of gap between the leaving and the arriving will for some be the parenthesis in eternity where their lives are lived.

 These are the real X-Men. To understand and perceive a shifting in perception and function in the modern religious landscape is first to be commended, to have acted upon that feeling is courageous. Some have felt the change and remained… waiting. Others have seen the change and abandoned the past to embrace the unknown. Still others have sought to link the two and in many cases been “torn asunder” spiritually and emotionally.

As in the movie of the same name, the X-Men were something new. Some were frightened and wanted to “cure” them, but they understood that what had occurred was not a “disease” but simply who they were born to be. Most likely I will not live to see the other side of this river of change, my life will have been lived out not having rested on solid ground, but on restless waves. Still, I know that though the river is full of change now – once the traverse is complete the journey will be remembered as have been made on a river of dreams. 

Jung

March 23, 2008

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“What you resist, persists.” That was spoken by Carl Jung, one of my favorite people. I know some would question, but I really do enjoy reading about Jung and the perception he had on life and the formation of our inner person.

This quote resounds with me. When we focus our attention on negative things, we find ourselves surrounded by more of the same. When we strive and put forth all our effort in one direction against one idea or issue, it seems that the idea or issue grows in magnitude right before our eyes.

Have you wanted to start eating healthy, and as soon as you make “the commitment” every fast food chain suddenly comes out with brand new sandwiches? You finally decide you need to start saving money, and as quick as you deposit the first bit into your savings, the greatest sale is announced. Do you find yourself asking – “What gives?”

Instead of focusing our interest on the negative, put the positive in front of your eyes and center on those things.

It has been said that energy flows where attention goes. If you want the negatives to have energy and momentum in your life  – put those things in front of you, but if you want the positive actions and issues in your life to grow and become energized – put the spotlight on them and see what happens.

“Love”

March 22, 2008

In the church world, it is easy to continually ruminate over the ins  and outs of dogma and theory. We can find ourselves questioning this and that, but never asking what are perhaps the better questions. Tons of paper has been used to print volumes of commentaries on Scripture. Men have made their lives work a quest to finish a complete observation and interpretation of what they think the authors meant.

 I was listening to Dennis Miller yesterday, and he quoted Bill Hicks as saying, “Never trust a man who begins his sentence by saying,’I think what Jesus was saying here was…’ ” I thought that was right on. Even though I’ve spent a great amount of time reading and a lot of money purchasing those same commentaries, the ultimate point of decision must lie with me.

When I read scripture – at least currently – I keep coming back to the place where the Pharisees ask Jesus which commandment is the greatest. Jesus had a wealth of both oral and written tradition to choose from. I still find myself feeling a little amazed that he comes back with “love”, as in “love your neighbor as yourself”. He says that we should love God, but He makes a point to identify loving each other as paramount.

Over the past few months I have parked here often and pondered over the little word “love”. So much is contained in those four letters. To be a people who follow the teachings of Jesus – whatever else we differ on, we cannot differ on the issue of love.

Michael Collins and St. Patrick

March 17, 2008

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I just watched a movie entitled, Michael Collins. I have to admit that I did not know who this guy was – I knew about Tom Collins, but not Michael. I had to jot a little down in honor of our Irish brothers and sisters.

This movie was great. Liam Neeson, Aidan Quinn and Julia Roberts and lots of blowing up bombed buildings. Aside from those noteworthy items, the story is really amazing. Afterward, you can’t help but have an overwhelming “aha” at the events that occurred just a few years ago in a very modern country.

Toward the end, you also appreciate the place that sheer luck has played in the course of human history. With the Irish Republic down to mere weeks before they have to give up, the greatest Empire of the time bows a knee and offers them freedom. Certainly it would be many more years before both parties agreed on the form of that freedom and the nation who enjoyed it, but that first step was undoubtedly given a divine boost.

It gives us hope that even today, seemingly insurmountable odds can be turned on their heels and amazing outcomes become the result.

Patrick Robinson

March 7, 2008

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For the next few days I want to spotlight a few people you may not have heard of that are on  the edge of innovation and design in popular culture. The first one is Patrick Robinson. He is the Executive Vice President of Design at GAP. The company has been off and on for the past several years, but the key is the approach that Patrick puts into his mission.

The point is that GAP should be providing classic American clothing. He says “the true indicator of success is getting people excited when they come to the store and having them walk out with a shopping bag.”

He is talking about true design buy-in. If we want to have influence in our culture we must also seek true buy-in by those we want to influence. If we simply present a good idea, but their is no take-away, we have failed. If I have a tremendous display of product or idea information, but you leave with a “I’ll think about it”, I have failed.

The key to sustainable influence is excitment that leads to commitment, ie. (excited when they come in and a shopping bag when they walk out).